Thursday, June 20, 2024

The Long Walk of Pain…

Walking with a toddler takes time. Time sweet time. The kind of time that despite countless experiences remains almost impossible to comprehend. A bit like waiting for the bell to ring at the end of a school day. Or for a Chinese take away to arrive. Or for that blue twat Iggle Piggle to float away in his poxy little boat towards certain hypothermia or a brutal, vicious, devastating shark attack.

However much time you set aside for a trip to the park it’s never enough, and it’s generally dark or raining by the time you finally arrive. Give yourself 20 minutes to pop to the Co-Op and you might as well write the whole day off, all for the sake of a pretty bang average Chicken Stew & Dumplings. Wherever you go it’s very much a walk of pain.

To give a rough ETA following a walk somewhere with Joshua it’s pretty much pram journey time multiplied by 10. But what is it that causes this never-ending trek, when in reality Joshua can walk as quickly as I can if he wants to?

The answer is a) STUFF and b) THINGS.

If there was no STUFF to look at, or THINGS to touch, on the way from A to B there would be no issues. In fact I would probably spend my time in slightly uncomfortable, chafing speed-walk mode in order to keep up with his little legs because when he gets a wriggle on he’s a speedy little bugger.

Our local park, for example, is a brisk 5 minutes walk away, or at most a 10 minute stroll. Unfortunately there is STUFF and indeed THINGS on the way to the park. The presence of this STUFF and these THINGS leads to an average park journey time well in excess of 30 minutes. For the miscalculating parent like myself this generally leaves around four minutes of time to actually play in the park before the sun sets or before his dinner is due.


In case you were curious, trying to remove Joshua from the play equipment after four minutes is like watching a person accidently falling into a woodchipping machine – ear-piercing screams and arms and legs flying everywhere.

The journey back from the park is even longer than the journey to the park given the requirement for Joshua to individually greet each of the horses in the adjacent stables / riding school.


STUFF and THINGS encountered on our round trip to the park that must be interacted with include multiple drains, lamp posts, gravel driveways, a grass hill, holes in brick walls, picking up sticks, hugging trees, sitting on every seat / bench available, a bush where a bee was once encountered, four roads to cross, and, depending on the day of the week, approximately twenty wheelie bins that need individually banging.


Within those journeys there is also a requirement to stop and run at random intervals and to sit on the floor for no apparent reason. It’s a treat for the senses and no mistake!


The moral of the story is really not to make any time-critical plans, or not to embark on a journey anywhere within a couple of hours of sunset / meal time / sleep time. Or to just take the car. Or just never leave the house…


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15 thoughts on “The Long Walk of Pain…

  • Brilliant post! Yep Baby Munch started walking the other week and I realised we need to add on another hour to our trips to the park! But it’s so cool seeing them explore lots of normal things and appreciating the environment around them . Something me and Mr.H were saying this evening over supper that we have stopped doing as adults (now that smartphones are here!). Have fun on your long(supposed to be shorter) walks together #KCACOLS

    • It’s a lot of fun seeing them starting to walk but just not ideal when you’re in a rush ?? Thanks for reading and commenting!

  • haha, so well said! My baby doesn’t walk yet but it alreay takes forever. He always decides to do a poo or something else that requires 20 minutes of my time before we even leave! Walk or ot, I am always late! Patience is key when you are a parent, right? Thanks so much for linking up at #KCACOLS. Hope you come back again next Sunday.

    • Patience is definitely a virtue!! Hard to keep it up sometimes though! Well done on hosting!!

  • Brilliant! I have this all to come, but from seeing my friends children, I know exactly what you are experiencing, everything is there to explore! #KCACOLS

    • I look forward to your matching post next year sometime!!! It’s definitely an experience ??

  • It starts off really cool seeing how amazed they are and how interested in the world that we take for granted. Doesn’t take long to grow tiresome however

    • Yep, normally about 10 minutes into the journey ??

  • This made me laugh! Damn stuff and things!! My daughter is the same except with getting ready to go anywhere. There is always stuff she is messing with and other things she needs to do that are more important ie doing Barbies hair thus making me late for work! #kcacols (ps I love your font)

    • I appreciate the font love!! The joy of Google fonts! There are always more interesting things to do than whatever it is we want them to do unfortunately ??

  • Excellent post, I can already see how STUFF and THINGS get in the way even with my daughter being a buggy, she is already fascinated by everything. I have no idea how long our usual 15 minute walk to the park would take, once she starts toddling. Hopefully the walking will pick up some pace for you soon. Have you tried reigns? Thanks so much for linking up at #fortheloveofBLOG. Claire x

    • Yes the reigns worked for a few weeks until he decided that he would only walk if HE was holding the reigns. If WE held the reigns he would stop dead and scream. Fun. Fun. Fun.

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